tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post2025171477898786506..comments2023-10-20T07:13:22.206-04:00Comments on Waiting for Happy: Advice Please!boltefamilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09178547489939649432noreply@blogger.comBlogger71125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-81778492251876409992009-06-29T08:56:06.071-04:002009-06-29T08:56:06.071-04:00Stopping by from Lynnette's blog. I had a pock...Stopping by from Lynnette's blog. I had a pocket sling (Mamma's Milk) and I didn't care for it at all. Having it just over one shoulder made my shoulder and back hurt. I got a custom wrap that I really love. It distributes the weight over both shoulders and my back and it feels much better, especially toting a 20+ lbs toddler!<br /><br />I love cloth diapering. I started off w/ Bumgenius but the aplix wore out quickly. I now use Tiny Tush OS Elite with snaps and I love them. I use Country Save for my detergent. I do a cold prewash soak, hot wash, and 2 cold rinses. I hand dry my dipes most of the time unless I am in a hurry and then I dry them on medium heat in the dryer. Line drying dipes is great and sunning them helps with sanitizing and stains. A helpful website is diaperjungle.com. You can email me too if you need any help @ caring4carleigh@yahoo.com.Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15431384515813384025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-79095434023294921102009-06-24T16:09:39.430-04:002009-06-24T16:09:39.430-04:00Hi there - my son Carson was born with EBS (the Si...Hi there - my son Carson was born with EBS (the Simplex form, i.e. the mildest form, of EB). We also needed to keep his hands covered because he scratched his face so much. We just used newborn socks. They were cheaper and easier to find than the mittens, and because they are longer, they stayed on his hands much better.<br /><br />Kristy<br />Mom to Carson, EBS, age 6Kristyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03159576061308760242noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-81631469109149637472009-06-23T22:05:03.258-04:002009-06-23T22:05:03.258-04:00What about turning them inside out? Would that wo...What about turning them inside out? Would that work? (hand mits with elastic?)Melindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15639258007138074899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-61769008942645233722009-06-23T20:11:57.409-04:002009-06-23T20:11:57.409-04:00I am a NICU nurse and use soft baby socks on my pr...I am a NICU nurse and use soft baby socks on my primary patient's hands. They are soft, do not scratch his face or hands, and much cheaper than hand mitts!<br /><br />UNC NICU RNDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08711179645424329881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-69200630290831413632009-06-21T07:48:38.393-04:002009-06-21T07:48:38.393-04:00I really like the Ergo carrier because it's ve...I really like the Ergo carrier because it's very supportive for baby and you. You can also put baby in sideways like a sling. If you don't want to spend that much $, there's a Korean version, called the Pognae (www.pognae.com) that has a couple extra features, is well-made, and costs about $30.<br /><br />As far as cloth diapering, I am rather frugal :-) so we use Gerber prefolds (the nice ones, NOT the birdeye cotton) and Thirsties covers. They work great for us!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-27891086118486586152009-06-19T14:07:40.831-04:002009-06-19T14:07:40.831-04:00Hope is purely scrumptious! I know you are enjoyin...Hope is purely scrumptious! I know you are enjoying her snuggles (even with sleep deprivation and medical drama). :) I always used baby socks on my kids hands because the elastic ones didn't stay put. You can also use little girls hair bands to keep them on sometimes. The stretchy ones, not elastic though. <br />Also, I had a really strong let down. I found it helpful to latch baby off as soon as my milk came in and let it drip off a bit onto a burp cloth. Then I re-latched baby for a few minutes before burping. If she isn't bothered by it, my pediatrician always said it's more of a laundry problem, than a medical one :)<br />Blessings!Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06753236966364456565noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-72699025618162576752009-06-19T10:51:02.580-04:002009-06-19T10:51:02.580-04:00Diapers - if you are concerned about leg casings/e...Diapers - if you are concerned about leg casings/elastic irritating Hope's delicate skin look into the Happy Heinys SIZED pocked diapers. They have no leg casings so only the fleece touches the skin. Their one-size diapers have leg casings, and I find that they leak whereas I never had issues with the sized pockets.<br /><br />www.happyheinys.com<br /><br />Slings - love the Baby K'tan. Almost as versatile as a Moby wrap without all the extra fabric. It is by far my most favorite carrier and I have a lot.<br /><br />www.babyktan.com<br /><br />Reflux - all 3 of my children were breastfed and spit up regularly. No projectile vomiting but just normal spitting up after a feeding. However, our third was actually diagnosed with reflux at 7 weeks. He started developing symptoms around 4 weeks and it took a few weeks for the light bulb to go off since he didn't spit up any worse than my previous 2 children. Signs to look for would include irritability after feeding, crying during and immediately after a feeding, pulling away from breast/bottle while feeding, arching back, crying when laid flat on back, aversion to eating since it causes pain.<br /><br />Most newborns have some degree of reflux, whether or not acid comes up with the milk and burns their esophagus determines if they need to be medicated. Some babies, like my son, are silent refluxers meaning they don't spit up very much but the acid is still being pushed up out of the stomach into his esophagus. Things you can do right now are to elevate the head of her crib/bassinet and what you are already doing - keep her upright for 30 minutes after a feeding. The muscle that keeps the sphincter closed at the top of the stomach gets stronger and more coordinated as your baby gets older so most kids eventually outgrow any reflux issues.<br /><br />Mittens - I believe Patrice uses mittens with satin ribbons tied around the wrist instead of elastic for Jonah. But baby socks like other have suggested do the trick quite nicely as well.<br /><br />Praying for your sweet Hope daily =)Angelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00170057157604244576noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-59829132098188736792009-06-19T09:03:16.440-04:002009-06-19T09:03:16.440-04:00I used a sling called a kissa sling, it comes in a...I used a sling called a kissa sling, it comes in a knit fabric that's very soft and comfy. My kids both had reflux (breastfed), cutting out dairy in my diet helped. Good luck!Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08502925396333421628noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-13914999039455883902009-06-18T17:52:42.455-04:002009-06-18T17:52:42.455-04:00Sock = mittens, YES!
Reflux = sorry, no help ther...Sock = mittens, YES!<br /><br />Reflux = sorry, no help there.<br /><br />Cloth diapers = sorry don't know about them either.<br /><br />Ring sling = had one and hated it. Made the weight bearing shoulder sore and tired very quickly, and limited my arm movements. But my baby loved it and would get quite excited when I got it out. Using a 'sleepy wrap' for baby #2, much more comfy for me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-10991509394207854862009-06-18T16:32:48.510-04:002009-06-18T16:32:48.510-04:00In regards to the spit up...my first never spit up...In regards to the spit up...my first never spit up but my second could send spit up from one side of the room to the next. At first I was very concerned but it didn't seem to bother my son and he was gaining wait. Our doctor wasn't concerned at all either. I did my best keep him upright for a while after eating which did seem to help. I thought about changing my diet but didn't (the doctor said if his stools remain yellow mustard seedy it isn't my diet.) Now at four months old, spit up is rare. It's probably been about a month since we've had any major spit up. My advice would be just to hang in there. Some babies spit up more than others. If it isn't bothering her she will probably outgrow it shortly.Torinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-28001418710614394312009-06-18T14:45:53.286-04:002009-06-18T14:45:53.286-04:00I have an ergo baby carrier...I LOVE it. It is bet...I have an ergo baby carrier...I LOVE it. It is better when baby is a few months old, but can be used much longer...well into Toddlerhood. I don't know what I'd do without mine. I had a sling, which was also great when my son was very small. The ergo has a newborn attachment, but I didn't like it. However, the ergo is easier to put on and take off quickly, which is good when you need to get ready to go in a hurry. My son LOVES it. You can sometimes get one off ebay..you could also ask on your blog if someone has one to sell or that they don't need anymore. I believe they are about $100 new, but so worth it. You can also re-sell on ebay when you are done with it, and get half or so of your money back. Check out their website. Baby Hope is precious!The Booyshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14468255835315905384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-60307039426159321092009-06-18T13:54:12.118-04:002009-06-18T13:54:12.118-04:00Wow you have a new baby and you're making lasa...Wow you have a new baby and you're making lasagna! Way to go!! I love the Hotsling. They are available at Target. I also have an Eco carrier I saw in Mothering magazine. It is really great as well and has an adapter for infants. You can use it for a child up to 45 pounds. As far as cloth diapers go, I use a combo diaper called G Diapers. They have a cotton cover, a plastic insert to keep everything dry and a disposable pad that can be flushed or composted. They are avaiable on line at gdiapers.com or at Babies R us. Good luck!blissmamaof3noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-60274753084087421042009-06-18T13:44:24.669-04:002009-06-18T13:44:24.669-04:00Contact this mama: http://www.mycharmingkids.net/...Contact this mama: http://www.mycharmingkids.net/<br /><br />She is all about slings and cloth diapering and other such things.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-17427112724865138742009-06-18T13:29:51.851-04:002009-06-18T13:29:51.851-04:00I'm not much help, but I can tell you I have f...I'm not much help, but I can tell you I have found the sleepers with the fold over hands at Old Navy for larger sizes. <br /><br />I'm not sure about other mittens without the elastic - maybe you or someone you know could make some?<br /><br />*hugs* I follow your blog closely and love reading about Hope.Rachelenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-19490972895904841912009-06-18T12:16:47.366-04:002009-06-18T12:16:47.366-04:00Our little girl ate SUPER fast and had gas all of ...Our little girl ate SUPER fast and had gas all of the time. A nice warm bath helps to relax them enough to burp well (I thought the lady that told me this was a little looney, but it works). I would also just let her be still for a while after feedings. I would stroke her cheek slowly to try and get her to suck with a little less vigor! :) And I must say that Gripe Water was/is our best friend. It's all natural and no medicine unlike Mylacon. I gave her Baby's Bliss brand (works best, I've tried others). Our little one would spit up and we thought every last drop came out, but it is a lot less than it looks. She gained 2lbs in 2 weeks! How much would she have gained if she kept it all in?! I'm hoping this helps! Continue to take great care of your precious gift! :)Gabbin' with Giffhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13320873875992125563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-43325741288530799032009-06-18T11:43:36.014-04:002009-06-18T11:43:36.014-04:00I had bought some little mitts for my kids at sear...I had bought some little mitts for my kids at sears, I believe they were Kushies brand. they dont have elastic in them.<br /><br />Another idea would be to look on Etsy? maybe someone can make you some just for Hope.Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05694585638022931458noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-13498939421710293512009-06-18T10:19:51.391-04:002009-06-18T10:19:51.391-04:00praying for you and your sweet family! to answer ...praying for you and your sweet family! to answer your questions...love the moby wrap, especially for less than 6 months stage! Cloth diapers...LOVE all kinds of cloth diapers, would recommend something like indian cotton prefolds and wool covers, as those might be the least irritating to her skin....there are wool covers that dont have elastic in them....otherwise, I really like Green Acre Designs (GADS). I've tried TONS (read-WAY TOO MANY FOR MY OWN GOOD) of different kinds of cloth diapers, so if you feel comfortable emailing me I'd be more than happy to go into more detail about the different kinds 2kincaids@gmail.com ) My daughter had acid reflux too, and had to take a compounded medication to treat it...but she outgrew it around 11months or so. Take care!!John Kincaidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06779951549868237877noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-81281826173699531862009-06-18T10:03:05.167-04:002009-06-18T10:03:05.167-04:00Should you little one have EB, that only means the...Should you little one have EB, that only means there will be different obstacles; however, such obstacles have given me (in my 47 yrs with EBS) a great understanding of life, love, friendship and moreover spirit.....spirit of all kind. <br /><br />Peace Love Light to your lovely family.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-43199059624515552562009-06-18T09:47:33.730-04:002009-06-18T09:47:33.730-04:00One of the blogs I read did a couple of posts expl...One of the blogs I read did a couple of posts explaining about the differences between brands of cloth diapers... I think that would help you a lot! She explained why she liked various ones and reasons others liked different ones. <br /><br />Here's the link to the post about brands: <br /><br />http://cliobaby.blogspot.com/2009/05/8-month-cloth-diaper-review-part-two.html<br /><br />Hope this helps!Language Arts Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07398823971305462063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-55825485730147296382009-06-18T09:25:54.836-04:002009-06-18T09:25:54.836-04:00We have a baby moon sling from babymoonslings.com ...We have a baby moon sling from babymoonslings.com I absolutely love it and still use it for my 20 month old. I always get compliments on it. Praying for your little one. I understand the feeling of waiting for the other shoe to drop. As a Mom of 2 chronically ill children, my heart goes out to you. Your family is in my prayers.<br />~Katie<br />www.caringbridge.org/visit/alexanderlindemannAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-24752511720663979122009-06-18T09:25:46.365-04:002009-06-18T09:25:46.365-04:00Worst case scenario is to use baby socks to cover ...Worst case scenario is to use baby socks to cover her hands. We did this with our newborns to both keep their little hands warm and to stop them from scratching their faces.Jennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01196133190299947768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-60350835827186349122009-06-18T09:24:30.077-04:002009-06-18T09:24:30.077-04:00If the reflux issue is related to your fast let do...If the reflux issue is related to your fast let down, you might try a trick that my lactation consultant taught me. Recline your own body when you start nursing so that you are at like a 60-degree angle or so, and then let the baby lie on you more on her tummy (so that she's semi-upright too) to let gravity keep your milk from gysering into her mouth and throat. Might help baby to not have to gulp to keep up, etc."I'm a Mommy!?!"https://www.blogger.com/profile/03337987704427248736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-54787648774577949322009-06-18T09:14:56.289-04:002009-06-18T09:14:56.289-04:00My youngest two children also have a rare skin dis...My youngest two children also have a rare skin disorder (I sent you an email about this a week or two ago). When we googled it in the beginning I was terrified because every single thing we found were the worst cases. The doctors are right...don't let yourself panic. As crazy as it sounds...you will feel better when you know what's going on...even if it means she has EB. It takes a little while to come to grips with things like this so enjoy your baby and try to put it on the shelf for now. <br />BTW...We have always used baby socks as mittens for our newborns...they stay on much better.Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01769747638201709220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-73937046667660840402009-06-18T09:14:48.470-04:002009-06-18T09:14:48.470-04:00I don't know if you read McMama's blog (my...I don't know if you read McMama's blog (mycharmingkids.net), but she uses a sling for baby Stellan and writes about it. She also has several posts about cloth diapering. You are in my prayers, as well as Baby Hope and the rest of your family. Remember that worry is not from God...I will pray for a peace over you that surpasses all understanding! You are full of His beauty and your faithfulness to Him through this walk is unbelievable!Kimberly Knoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-13585647211676720102009-06-18T09:08:39.440-04:002009-06-18T09:08:39.440-04:00As for mits, you could try using soft baby socks a...As for mits, you could try using soft baby socks and rolling the cuffs to hold them snuggly. The reflux, all 3 of my biological children had..as did their daddy. They could paint a target across the room! The doc had them sleep in their carseat carriers for the first month and that helped (or at least made me less worried of them choking at night. It never bothered any of them, it wasn't acidic or painful and they all gained weight like little piggies! I became accustomed to carrying several changes of clothing/bibs for them as well as an extra shirt for myself in the diaper bag ;) Slings are absolutely the way to go. I don't remember what kind I have, but there are so many that people rave about I think the Maya and the peanut shell are the ones I heard about lately. We will continue to pray for a quick lab result, peace, and a happy ending for all of you. Great is our God!Hilary Marquishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17074833890977655054noreply@blogger.com