tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post6496342368768849149..comments2023-10-20T07:13:22.206-04:00Comments on Waiting for Happy: A Thankful Heartboltefamilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09178547489939649432noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-30834341377540521722008-12-03T18:08:00.000-05:002008-12-03T18:08:00.000-05:00Oh Kristy these words have went through my heart m...Oh Kristy these words have went through my heart many times...all of it from being mad and wanting to distance myself from our Lord to just GETTING it, and swallowing it even when it's hard. <BR/><BR/>I know without a doubt he loves you so much and knowing that although you have suffered so absolutely, yet God is still God. He is who he was yesterday, 1 year ago, 3 yrs ago, 1000 years ago. It's so awesome to me to think that what we can't see in this whole big picture, God CAN and that what we know of GOD is that all things that happen are to glorify him. To know that your babies, Miller Grace, and my Jordyn (just to name a few) that their lives as short as they were, were for the purpose to Glorify him in their life and deaths is amazing to me. Sometimes even 8 1/2 yrs later still a big lump, very hard to push down, but amazing none the less. <BR/><BR/>I'm praying for you, for this baby you are carrying, for your family. <BR/><BR/>God BlessChristyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02932007213063890925noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-9399458181978515362008-12-01T20:49:00.000-05:002008-12-01T20:49:00.000-05:00I hope things went well for you today. We are all...I hope things went well for you today. We are all thinking of you!<BR/><BR/>Your post meant a lot as I read it...I feel like everytime I start to heal, something happens and the scab is ripped off. I know I am supposed to rejoice in my trials, but sometimes I find it so difficult. It's nice to know others struggle during pain. Thank you for your real words.<BR/><BR/>God bless!Mrs Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08410514882776511174noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-18240334337199231162008-12-01T15:09:00.000-05:002008-12-01T15:09:00.000-05:00Kristy-I am thinking of you and your boys... I am ...Kristy-I am thinking of you and your boys... I am praying over your ultrasound that I believe is about to happen. You are covered girl. Lots of love. MichelleMichellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09066492943723194153noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-72117011867319096772008-12-01T13:38:00.000-05:002008-12-01T13:38:00.000-05:00ps...I read a blog a few days ago that had a long ...ps...<BR/><BR/>I read a blog a few days ago that had a long post (with lots of replies) about being thankful for the loss of their baby. I had a really hard time with this. It took me a few hours/days to reallyl comprehend what she was trying to say. I did not post a reply initially.<BR/><BR/>Then...when I went to the post was gone.<BR/><BR/>I'm not thankful what happened to my son or our family. It has/will take many more hours of reflection and prayer for me to get to that space where i can be thankful that we went threw what we did.<BR/><BR/>((HUG)) again...Story of our Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01617622682686871400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-63499267510554670882008-12-01T13:35:00.000-05:002008-12-01T13:35:00.000-05:00(((HUGS)))i'll be thinking/praying for you this af...(((HUGS)))<BR/><BR/>i'll be thinking/praying for you this afternoon. <BR/><BR/>you have been such an inspiration to me. even on the days when you may not think you are...you have been. <BR/><BR/>sending our love and prayers to you...<BR/><BR/>galaStory of our Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01617622682686871400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-25645945612769778222008-12-01T12:35:00.000-05:002008-12-01T12:35:00.000-05:00I am in prayer for you. I am in a different situa...I am in prayer for you. I am in a different situation with an adoption from Vietnam that we received not so good news about, I am also struggling with what God is doing? I know He is always there, but I feel bitter and then sad for feeling that way because I have been blessed and am thankful for what He has blessed me with. I guess the best description would be confusion. Sorry to unload on you I pray that everything is perfect. I have followed your journey since the loss of Happy and you deserve some good news.<BR/><BR/>In my prayers,<BR/>Cheryl F<BR/>www.whattonameher.blogspot.comCheryl F.https://www.blogger.com/profile/15801898357585850997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-63150686324373294922008-12-01T12:04:00.000-05:002008-12-01T12:04:00.000-05:00I am praying for you today. I will be waiting for ...I am praying for you today. I will be waiting for your news!!! :)Christa @ Quintoopleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05631811094202651481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-67132106791246163092008-12-01T10:26:00.000-05:002008-12-01T10:26:00.000-05:00I'm praying today, Kristy.I'm praying today, Kristy.Devinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00536576059551978920noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-14492482922701357552008-12-01T09:22:00.000-05:002008-12-01T09:22:00.000-05:00Morning Kristy, I think that you are right on...it...Morning Kristy, <BR/>I think that you are right on...it's about being authentic. Parents were not made to bury their children, let alone two of them. That's why it doesn't feel right and why you'll never be right with it. That's not the way God made this life to work. That's not what he intended. <BR/>Along with that, the Bible says to be thankful "in" everything, not "for" everything. You do not have to be thankful for your sons' deaths. Be you have found a way to be thankful "through" them. <BR/>The best part of it all, is that God understands and is honored by your honesty. Don't you think that God is pleased with your struggle to stand there and praise Him even when you feel like being any place else? How about the person standing behind you singing at the top of his lungs who hasn't even considered God at all that day? Even Jacob struggled with God and was blessed. Many blessings to you today!!Melaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03864060563315231039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-46609852889694061212008-12-01T08:48:00.000-05:002008-12-01T08:48:00.000-05:00Sweet and honest post from your heart Kristy. You...Sweet and honest post from your heart Kristy. You are doing it, getting through with His help. I will be praying for your ultra sound today for baby Bolte #5. Praying for your heart to be comforted ahead of time and full of the joy of GOOD NEWS!! I believe with all my heart that it is your turn. I love you girl.<BR/><BR/>Love and Many Prayers, Laurie in Ca.Laurie in Ca.https://www.blogger.com/profile/15599832324966859946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-50706316700701779892008-12-01T01:38:00.000-05:002008-12-01T01:38:00.000-05:00Hi! I've recently found your blog and I want you ...Hi! I've recently found your blog and I want you to know that you are an inspiration! I'll be praying for you tomorrow (later today). :D Have a great and God-blessed day! AmandaAmandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13309969907300632789noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-84923937825838962702008-12-01T00:16:00.000-05:002008-12-01T00:16:00.000-05:00So much of this post was echoed by my heart and so...So much of this post was echoed by my heart and so much of it makes me cry out to the Lord for you. I am praying for your precious, perfect baby and for your peace and for the Lord to just keep calling us toward Him.<BR/><BR/>I love you.Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08759365262093159087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-72480724403246026632008-11-30T22:59:00.000-05:002008-11-30T22:59:00.000-05:00Thank you for your post today. I've been blaming ...Thank you for your post today. I've been blaming God for everything that's gone wrong this past year and reading your words realize that I too am acting like a 2 yr. old who doesn't get what she wants. I don't know why God picked our family for all the adversity but hope that someday I will learn the reason.<BR/><BR/>I'll be thinking of you tomorrow when you have your ultrasound. I'll certainly pray that all goes well.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-91622772582437668982008-11-30T22:42:00.000-05:002008-11-30T22:42:00.000-05:00I could have written these words myself. Thank yo...I could have written these words myself. Thank you for being so transparent. I'm not sure if I've ever posted before, but I do read. I lost my son on June 24, 2008... he was created with one too many chromosomes, specifically Trisomy 13. I can relate to you on so many levels.Taylorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06049892091380130060noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-70431715324557032782008-11-30T22:17:00.000-05:002008-11-30T22:17:00.000-05:00I'll definitely be praying for you and your ultras...I'll definitely be praying for you and your ultrasound tomorrow.<BR/><BR/>For you to be able to write about a thankful heart...all I can say is thanks for the reminder :o)<BR/><BR/>Take care,<BR/>AmandaJust Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13107897626295034178noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-13964738207280434892008-11-30T21:16:00.000-05:002008-11-30T21:16:00.000-05:00That prayer thing is a really hard one to deal wit...That prayer thing is a really hard one to deal with, under these circumstances. I understand. It goes without saying that God does.<BR/><BR/>We will be praying for you. Don't you worry about being covered in that area. I will be praying for peace, and only good news from the ultrasound for you. 3:30 CST<BR/><BR/>Love you, connieconniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08675708151247378703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-55630513698431838572008-11-30T20:49:00.000-05:002008-11-30T20:49:00.000-05:00i love your realness...continue to be genuine and ...i love your realness...continue to be genuine and don't hide your true feelings. god can handle it and he knows your heart. your THANKFUL heart.<BR/><BR/>i love that verse. been trying to reconcile that same question this weekend and feeling the same thoughts towards god. KNOWING he is soveriegn and in that same breath, KNOWING he allowed our children to die. thats a hard reality to grasph. in time, i think he will grant us peace about it if we continue to seek him...<BR/><BR/>love you sweet friend and so THANKFUL for you! praying for you tomorrow....Devonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08741058376833464074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-55358808537122724762008-11-30T20:36:00.000-05:002008-11-30T20:36:00.000-05:00Thank you for this post.... it was great. I will b...Thank you for this post.... it was great. I will be praying for your ultrasound tomorrow. Let us know how it goes!Stacy Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13237198188394672456noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-8716477786758663922008-11-30T20:06:00.000-05:002008-11-30T20:06:00.000-05:00Praying for you. Hope your ultrasound goes well t...Praying for you. Hope your ultrasound goes well tomorrow. Enjoy getting a sneak peek at your newest family member. <BR/>Hugs and Prayers<BR/>Rachel in PARachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10146322185715011803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-36035931565559147292008-11-30T20:04:00.000-05:002008-11-30T20:04:00.000-05:00Will be thinking of you all tomorrow. I imagine y...Will be thinking of you all tomorrow. I imagine you must have butterflies in your belly. :o) I was always so anxious for my ultrasounds. <BR/><BR/>Praying for you tomorrow and always dear friend.<BR/><BR/>Love Ya!!!<BR/>SuzSuziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04553976664879552909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-19385355458290931502008-11-30T20:03:00.000-05:002008-11-30T20:03:00.000-05:00I HAVE JUST RECENTLY FOUND YOUR BLOG AND HAVE ENJO...I HAVE JUST RECENTLY FOUND YOUR BLOG AND HAVE ENJOYED READING ABOUT YOUR JOURNEY. I WILL HAVE YOU IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS!ASHLEYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06506142767326284555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-75829664207591992592008-11-30T19:56:00.000-05:002008-11-30T19:56:00.000-05:00Im putting an alarm on my phone to alert me at 3:3...Im putting an alarm on my phone to alert me at 3:30 central time. This post touched me, thank you.Anxious AFhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10911308224630696808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7668050648919046122.post-27173742003674949772008-11-30T19:39:00.000-05:002008-11-30T19:39:00.000-05:00although different circumstances i feel like i cou...although different circumstances i feel like i could have written this post. as you know my struggles..i can't help but wonder why and question the use of praying. however, i know that is satan attacking me and i have to stand against him. boy, do i want healing. i want my life back. i am not thankful FOR what has happened but i am thankful for my God in whom i can trust. i am thankful that He would not allow these things into our lives if He couldn't bring better.<BR/><BR/>you are such an inspiration. i am sorry beyond words for all that you have endured. but grateful for your authenticity and the way you point others to Christ.<BR/><BR/>praying for tomorrow.<BR/>~sherylSherylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06005663095818742053noreply@blogger.com